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您和您的伴侣目前的关系状况还好吗!

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非常享受与伴侣在一起的时光,您们的关系状况是良性发展的...

  • 伴侣尊重你的确定、欲望以及做出的选择

  • 他(她)尊重你的朋友和家人

  • 相信你

  • 为你所高兴的事情而高兴

  • 每次你们一起做一件事情时先争取你的意见

你们互相尊重、虽然有时候吵架但是没人以此而害怕

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要小心,可能要停止这段感情,可能存在不对劲的地方了...

  • 冷战,持续很多天不跟你说话、不理你或者一直生气

  • 勒索你,使你违背意愿必须听他(她)决定的事情

  • 贬低你的项目和想法

  • 在公众前面嘲笑你

  • 嫉妒你和其他(她)人在一起的正常相处

  • 说谎,欺骗你

  • 控制你应该怎么穿衣服,控制你的外出

  • 偷偷翻看你的邮箱和手机,私自在里面找东西

  • 让你发给他(她)不应该发的隐私照片

  • 不让你联系你的家人和朋友

这是不正常的,不是你的错,不需要继续这样的关系

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时刻记得保护自己,然后让他人来帮助...

  • 每次当你跟他(她)说一句话或事情时都说你疯了

  • 一旦有他(她)不喜欢的东西时就会发飙

  • 扬言会因为你而去自杀

  • 强制你和他(他)看大尺度(黄)片

  • 要挟你,如果不听他(她)的话就把你的隐私照片发布出去

  • 猥亵,在不经你允许的情况下摸你不应该摸的地方

  • 打你、抓你、拉扯你,或者有其他暴力的举动

  • 强奸

  • 使用武器来威胁你

小心、你们很有可能是被所谓的“伴侣”威胁到了,别一个人处理这段感情,你是可以改变现状的

SUPPORT VICTIME PAS SEULE !

 

Beneficiary:

Association VPS

1260 Nyon

Alternative Bank Switzerland

CH10 0839 0039 8657 1000 5

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Scan this QR code from your Twint app or click here from your phone!

 

Your donations will help us develop, print/produce, and distribute information and awareness tools for people who have been victims of physical, mental, and sexual violence (and their loved ones) in French-speaking Switzerland. Whether one-time or a regular payment, any amount of support is valuable. A warm thank you!

Example of one-time support: CHF 200.–, 500.–, or 1’000.–

Example of regular support: CHF 20.–, 50.–, or 100.– per month

 

​You can also support VPS by purchasing this beautiful collection of solidarity magnets!

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© 2021-2025

This information platform was created by Chloé, a former victim, with the participation of the Police Cantonale Vaudoise, Me Céline Jarry-Lacombe | lawyer in Vevey, Mr. Pierre Jaquier | LAVI counsellor in Lausanne, Ms. Céline Degonda | psychotherapist in Lausanne, and Ms. Cécile Greset | scientific collaborator and doctoral candidate at the Institute of Gender Studies in Geneva, for the website launch in March 2022.

 

A special thank you to those who shared their invaluable testimony. Would you like to share your story anonymously? You can submit your testimony here!

A warm thank you to survivors and everyone contributing to the success of various VPS projects ♥ Thank you to the professionals who review the content on the platform and tools and who contribute to blog articles. Thank you to everyone who volunteered to translate the online vioence scaler into their language. Lastly, a special thanks to Soroptimist International Nyon-Rolle for their support and collaboration.

ALL REPRODUCTION, EVEN PARTIAL, IS PROHIBITED WITHOUT AUTHORISATION.

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